If you want to find out more about Dianetics and Scientology, the best way to do this is to read an L. Ron Hubbard book on the subject. I personally recommend you read Problems of Work.
This book really helped me with the idea that control is a positive factor and not a negative one. To have control is to deal with confusion and actually lessen stress. To control ones environment actually is beneficial to those around you. The less confusion their is, the greater chance of harmony and happiness can be enjoyed.