In Scientology I learned the basics of communication. The tools I have learned to use make it so all my relationships with spouse, children, family, friends or strangers are successful ones. I have studied and used Scientology for 22 years now. I am married and both of our children have been raised with Scientology basics. Some important points with our boys is that we always treated them as adults even when they were small. In other words, we respected them and their viewpoints about things. We let them contribute to the family and business as they could and taught them the value of being able to be productive.