One of the best wins I ever had was in doing a particular course which helped me recognize a lot of false data that I had been using in my life without realizing it . Once I recognized it and got rid of all this false data, it literally changed my life. I also had lots of successes in recognizing where people were "really at" and that allowed me to feel more capable in dealing with people. I have used Scientology in all Aspects of my life because it really works and it has given me Much more certainty. No matter What problem I might be having I can apply something from what I have learned in Scientology to The problem and handle it. In Scientology we learn that no matter what the problem might be with someone, that the best thing is to communicate until you resolve the problem. I had a problem with a friend and she didn't want to talk to me. I just kept in communication with her and we eventually handled the upset and we both felt a lot better afterwards.